The Wrong Kind of Love?

Life is indeed full of surprises. We just don’t know what will come knocking at our doors next. It is difficult to come to a realization that there exists within us another person unexpectedly and totally different from us. It is like a mysterious flame glowing through cold ash.

I have always said that it is not in loving a person that we commit sin but it is what we do when we love beyond the limits of reason that makes it wrong. Your moral sensors made you aware of the implication of such relationship. The hardship you are going through reflects your internal conflict but your ability to rationalize means that you are capable of changing the course of your life.

If you really want to forget him then you have to stop thinking about him. He may not be in your face but you have allowed him to remain at the back of your mind. And the mind is very powerful. The people who we do not remember are the people who mean little to us and the people we love are those we do not forget. If we stop loving a person then we can start forgetting. But for as long as our hearts are connected then all our efforts to rule over our emotion will mean nothing.

We become who we think and believe we are. Be yourself and remember that we can only be truly happy when we are at peace with our inner selves and when we are in harmony with the people we love and the people who love us.

Joe ‘D Mango
June 18, 2006, PDI